"At some point in our lives we all have experience seasons of unhealthy and dysfunctional relationships. I even walked through the overwhelming path of a divorce. “Relationship Dynamics” by Pamela Hadley is like a Compass that points to the right direction with revelation of the principles of the Word of God, to give us Hope in this complex and challenging journey of relationships. Most of us did not grow up with a model of a healthy relationship, we just made adjustments based on our past experiences. 

“Relationship Dynamics” also provides us with a powerful insight about a controversial word: submission. It also provides clarity about divorce, and other functions within relationships. Let’s give God an opportunity to renew and restore our mind, heal our heart and upgrade our Relationship Dynamics among us. Doing so will allow the Holy Spirit to express through us the genuine character of Christ and be a testimony that glorifies the name of JESUS!"

       ~E.F. - Hayward California 

“This book is awesome! 

As I embark on my journey towards marriage (I’m currently engaged), I found this book to be timely and much needed in my life. It has reassured me that the seeds I have been planting in my preparation for marriage will eventually return to me a full and bountiful harvest as I walk in the Lord’s will for my life as an individual and as a wife. As a “millennial” I value what this book offers at it gives sound, practical, and easy to understand biblical concepts for marriage and other relationships. This is stuff we aren’t usually taught, even though it should be. So many marriages and soon to be marriages can be saved and benefit from this book. So much wisdom in this!”

       ~ C.C. Sacramento California 

   you'll get a better understanding of how God works in relationships. This is the most dynamic and thought provoking topic of all. If you study what Ephesians has to say about the relationship types, you'll get a better understanding of how God works in relationships and what His goal is for us as Kingdom Couples! Dr. Hadley-Chea breaks down God's design for those who lead and those who submit to leadership. She deals with responsibility in relationships based on the biblical principles outlined in the bible. EXCELLENT book! 


 In this book Pastor Pamela take us through the meaning of all our relationships ... In this book Pastor Pamela take us through the meaning of all our relationships.From our relationship with God to our work relationship,family,friends and marriage.She tells us the importance of our relationship with God being of upmost importance in order to have any type of relationship.I HIGHLY recommed this book for anyone wishing to know about relationships.

                      -P. Nowinski 


"Elegant Living on a Budget by Pamela Hadley is a small, short to the point, realistic and practical book. You may already be practicing several of the tips mentioned in this book like I am, but I can assure you that “Elegant Living on a Budget” can give you the right focus and goal to upgrade and re-arranged your mindset. This new mindset will aid you in using what you are already practicing as a stepping stone to transition from “common” to “upper class” lifestyle while earning a lower class income, and not just feeling low and unfortunate of not having enough income. God desires to break you free from lack, and that requires not only sacrifices, discipline and determination, but also strategy. Most of us run away from budgeting, but this book gives us a wake-up advice that “Budgeting put us in a position to be lenders rather than borrowers” and that is powerful."

"I encourage you to read this handbook and make the decision to be transformed and see the hope that one day you can walk in true wealth for God’s glory and blessing to others and the Kingdom of God on this Earth."

       ~E.F. - Hayward California 


5.0 out of 5 stars Elegant Living On A Budget review

June 16, 2015

I had the opportunity to read this book and is totally impressed. It should be read in women seminars and workshops. It's a short book but carries a powerful message. I love it that she said to TAKE it until you make it. She gives the steps that makes it possible. Some steps I was already doing, but there are others that I am saying thank you, Lord, for giving her the ministry to speak Elegant Living On A Budget. What God did for her, I know that He will do it for us. I am looking forward to reading more from Pam and attending her seminars. I am so proud of you. God's blessings on your future endeavors.

                        -S. Vann


 ... a quick read & it gave a lot of great tips for living an upper class lifestyle on a ... This book was a quick read & it gave a lot of great tips for living an upper class lifestyle on a budget! Since the author was so successful with using these tips it makes me feel confident that following these tips will help me to reach my financial goals of saving, budgeting, living comfortably and still being able to purchase things of great quality. I would suggest this book to anyone who is looking for financial enlightenment &/or has similar financial goals that I do!


 Good Readings  The book was great. It offered a lot of tips on how to budget your money, yet still be able to live nicely. The book was easy to read and follow. I will definitely keep this book for future reference, and perhaps let a couple of friends read it.       -D.



December 30, 2017 

I read this book via an Amazon-US KINDLE Unlimited download.

Far too many of us are trying to keep with the Joneses, you know those neighbors we’ve got who are trying to set the standard for everyone else to achieve; and those who are unable to obtain it could and might be considered to be socio-economic or cultural inferiority.

A long while back when everyone had been showing off their newly acquired ATARI games, I waited and got the SAME EXACT game; however, it had SEARS labeling on it. There are countless items being made by manufacturers that are sold under other names. My father had been a production manager for a company making men’s knit shirts, while some had gone to companies like Spiegel some got a designer label sewn in and selling for over 20% - 25% more.

Clothes make the person, whether it be a man or a woman and there’s no need to shop where the Joneses shop, you can do what countless of people do who are on public assistance do, shop at thrift; I’ve found some gently-used gorgeous clothes there myself and paid pennies on the dollar.

I loved the manner in which the author has integrated the basic down-to-earth guidance and sentiments found in any Christian bible in obtaining an aristocratic lifestyle while essentially being a mere pauper.

The author doesn’t merely state what’s needed to be done to achieve this goal; after each segment of this book, she asks her readers to feedback to themselves regarding what they’ve just read, thereby enhancing the learning process this book is attempting to give its readers, which is the reason this book has received 5 STARS from this reviewer. 

                                -R.L. Morgan